To be enlightened does not mean being like some kind of unfeeling, uncaring, ‘positive thinking’ robot. Being enlightened means feeling everything, without labelling it as good or bad, positive or negative, right or wrong. In the moments you are enlightened you feel everything and you feel free, the freedom comes from allowing yourself to feel everything without judgement. And when you do that, you kind of float over whatever you are feeling in a way that makes every feeling beautiful.